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Realizing...

I've always believed in processes and I tended to criticize the ones who thought that the facts of life were instantaneous. Well, I decided to give it a little more thought and I found out that there is no opposite or antonym for process. By definition, a process is a series of actions directed or designed to produce a particular result. Well, it would be a blatant obviousness to say that everything is a process, because everything is in fact the result of a process. In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility. Eleanor Roosevelt I realized, then, that I was not bothered by people's desire for instantaneous results - simply because such results do not exist -, but by the fact that people expect shorter and shorter processes. True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many